and how to do it!
Writing groups are a place where the best practice is sharing: feedback, knowledge and experience and your work. What’s not suggested is treating someone’s manuscript as if your Simon Cowell on The X Factor. Unless the writer asked for every single mistake and missed quotation mark, keep feedback focused on a few important points. It’s good to find a nice variety of feedback to give. Here’s some examples: how you relate to something in the story, what you really liked, a few ways to improve formatting, where you get confused or pulled away from the story, and maybe even take time to discuss some metaphors or fun philosophical ideas.
What inspired this post was a slide I shared on Instagram the other day that says, “It’s not about showing off your writing skills.” I have to admit there are great ways to show of your writing skills. One sure way to show confidence is by using tact when engaging with writers who are giving you feedback. Jot their thoughts down. Respect their level of writing knowledge. Another great way to show of your writing skills is by being vulnerable. Let yourself have fun and learn something from everyone.
I’m saying make the connection with those around you more important than name dropping.
If you did get a moment to brag about your writing experience, what would you say?
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