The Scary First Time

The first time I attended a writing group, my voice shook. I was nervous. I had no idea how to gauge myself as a writer. I also had been home for a while so I wasn’t as social at that time in my life. Let me tell you, I was scared. I was scared to receive feedback, give feedback, read outloud, even just to speak casually among the writers in the group. Some people may go to these group and be fearless. But it wasn’t that way for me. I still get nervous with new groups for the first time.

It’s ok to be scared. It’s ok to save your most vulnerable piece for only those you trust. It’s ok to only share what you feel comfortable sharing.

Trust your gut. If you’re feeling that writing group isn’t a good fit, leave it. But you’ll never know until you try!

Don’t let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game.

Babe Ruth

Published by Jayne

Jayne is a writer. On her free time she likes to be with her family hiking outdoors and traveling. New England is her home and place of birth. When asked what she wants to teach the world she replied, "Don't stop searching. Too many times, in my old life, I put my search aside for more 'important matters.' I didn't realize the thing I was searching for held what was most important; my soul purpose." Jayne works daily on improving her craft and at times can get down on herself, but her favorite morning mantra is "It's a new day." and that's what she strives to start with.

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