“All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on.” -Havelock Ellis
I’ve never been any good at letting people go. That’s one huge reason why I make sure I connect with people I truly want around forever. Because this girl just loves people forever. But I agree, learning what’s worth hanging on to and what’s worth letting go of is an art. I mean, yeah, there are basic things that are a no-brainer, but there are some murky waters where it’s not so easy to know. And oftentimes it has no ethical standing. It’s just a choice, not good or bad either way. The great news it that you get to stand boldly at the crossroads and make an art out of it. What a life you have to live.
What are willing to let go of? What are you hanging on to? Personally, I’m hanging onto this femininity vibe.