“I have learned silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness from the unkind; yet, strange, I am ungrateful to those teachers.” -Khalil Gibran
One thing I have thought about in the past is that people may be rude and unkind, and you may be able to forgive them and find the lesson in it. That doesn’t mean you have to allow them back into your life. Take the lesson and move forward.
With that being said, I have very few people I hang out with, and I leave my house so rarely that the friend rotation means I won’t see some people for at least half a year. I say that to say, be intentional about your friendships.
Are you the type to have a lot of friends and always hang out with them? Or less friends less often?