There is a whole entire life ahead and it’s coming to you. Let it come.
Before I got married, I was afraid to shoot for the stars. That didn’t work out for me.
By the time I got married, I was certain on what I wanted and was racing toward it. That didn’t work out the way I planned
These days, I’m not as certain of what’s to come, more courageous, still a bit ambitious but… open to letting things unfold as they may. It’s not perfect. It is way less stressful though. It also helps me prioritize my energy toward things that I value.
Whatever comes, let it come.
– H. W. L. Poonja (Papaji)
What stays, let it stay.
What goes, let it go.
Yes I have worked through some great things but I do struggle still before my big events. There’s just so much uncertainty with most events, you just never know. I struggle with not knowing which way my event will go. This year I tried my best to really focus on self care right when I started feeling anxious. It’s a work in progress but I’m sure I’ll get the hang of it someday.
We don’t have to be good at letting go or letting things come, we just gotta work at it everyday and eventually you’ll get a bit better and better until bam you have an entire new thing to work on and letting go of that one thing something in the past.