Life is wide, limitless. There is no border, no frontier.Bruce Lee
One of the affirmations that works for me when I’m battling judgy thoughts is, “I am an infinite and evolving being.” Sometimes I feel mindsets come on that are outside of my typical thought pattern. They are usually aggressive and belittling. They make me feel like I have to be the old me. The me I was before I went through all the experiences that gave me wisdom. These thoughts make me feel like I’m being fake because I changed. Or here’s one, they make me second guess my current decisions as if they are so big and life altering that I can’t change them or learn from them in the future. I want to live. I think decision making is important but not so important that it should cripple me from making sound choices. I’d rather not but I’m ok with getting it wrong sometimes, as long as I show up to make things right if need be. I want to learn and adapt and keep reinspiring myself over and over again. And I want to be myself while I do it, my ever changing, life long learning, mistake-making, consistent, ambitious ass self. If I allow limiting thoughts to run my decision making, I will cut myself off to all those things that I want to be simultaneously. I’m willing to work for those things, so that’s what I allow myself do and be.