Doors to Possibility -Happy Birthday C. S. Lewis

“Don’t use words too big for the subject. Don’t say ‘infinitely’ when you mean ‘very’; otherwise you’ll have no word left when you want to talk about something really infinite.” -C. S. Lewis

In honor of C. S. Lewis’ birthday, I wanted to share one of his quotes. This one made me laugh because I actually used the word ‘infinitely’ in one of my school papers where ‘very’ would probably work just as well. Interesting timing that this would show up and grab my attention.

Another interesting thing I read was his last book,  Letters to Malcolm: Chiefly on Prayer. I listened to just the first chapter, and it’s interesting that we still bring up the same questions today. I wanted to look at his last work because I truly love to see the evolution of artists. I can’t tell from the first chapter whether he changed any of his views. He seems to be pretty consistent over time, but I’d like to see if his last book shows some shift in his views on religion, or even if it just opens the door to possibility. If you’ve read Narnia, you know doors to possibility are kind of his thing.

Final Part of the Process

“Healthy self-expression can make your life more fulfilling, allowing you to tap into your own, unique creativity, desires, and passions.” -Karen Sosnoski, PhD on Psychcentral

This first novel of mine focuses on self-expression. It’s a collection of moments, thoughts, and ideas, and it’s a work of fiction that I feel expresses so many little parts of me. I have learned pretty quickly that I prefer novel writing over all other forms of writing. I have also learned that I love the entire process of novel writing. Now I get to learn the final part of the process: sharing my work with the world. There’s still some work to do when it comes to how. There are a million options these days, just have to narrow it down.

What’s your favorite part of the writing process?

Do You Write Alone?

“The writing process for me is pretty much always the same – it’s a solitary experience.” -Sheryl Crow

It’s interesting because I speak often of the writing process being solitary. I speak often of taking intentional time for yourself. But I also must admit that when I sit down to write, I bring so many people with me. They may not be there in the physical sense, but each individual is a thread being woven into the story. It may not be an entire character that is them, but maybe I remember the unique way they hold a spoon, or the way they curled their lip at a strange smell, or even the way they bring that amazing energy that lights my fire. And so yes, writing is a solitary act in the physical sense, but at the same time, there’s a world of people that show up on that page.

How’s your writing going?

I’m Home

“Breathe in deeply to bring your mind home to your body. Then look at, or think of, the person triggering this emotion: With mindfulness, you can see that she is unhappy, that she is suffering. You can see her wrong perceptions. You can see that she is not beautiful when she says things that are unkind.” -Thich Nhat Hanh

Tonight, I took a moment to collect myself. I don’t feel scattered or anything, but I do feel very excited about where I am in life. My home is inside me. It’s not really something that can be taken away. I built it myself, bone by bone. I walked around with rage, fear, and insecurities for a long time. Now I have the discipline to put those things down and exchange them for joy, gratitude, and curiosity. Some days, I’m just so hungry for life that I want to do it all at once.

It did take a mentor. It did take my husband’s stability. It did take writing with people who were once strangers. I didn’t do it all alone, but I did build my home, and I love it here, inside me.

Did you take a moment to be mindful today?

There’s Always a Good Reason to Write.

“I can shake off everything as I write; my sorrows disappear, my courage is reborn.” — Anne Frank

There’s always a good reason to write. I think one of the greatest reasons to write is when I feel completely out of control. I don’t write to gain control; I write to find my calm in the chaos. It took some time for me to find my calm. I think—and I’m not committed to this—but I think that writing has become my anchor. When I need my little heart to be still, I write. And so that’s why I liked this quote for tonight. I like it because I can completely relate. I think how I feel in this world matters more than all the things I can’t control. When I say how I feel, I mean the way I allow myself to feel my way through things. Not placing blind faith in my feelings, but listening to what they are trying to tell me and going from there.

Can you relate to Anne Frank’s quote?

Serenity

“The key to serenity is trusting that the universe has your back.” -Gabrielle Bernstein

Serenity sounds like such a pretty word to me. I’d love to have a home that exudes serenity. Exude is significantly less pretty of a word, but that’s irrelevant. The thing is that serenity is a feeling inside you. Some days I like a little dancing and loud music; I enjoy playing games and having fun in our home. And sometimes we have to have difficult conversations, but generally, peace is my priority in my home.

A peaceful life is a lot less boring than I thought it would be.

Here’s some ways I create a peaceful environment:

  • I greet everyone when they get home.
  • I try to always have the hot water ready.
  • I love simmer pots and I’m even more excited to try those simmer pots that you can drink! (These are new for me. If you have any fun simmer pot recipes that are tea please share!)
  • Show grace to yourself and those around you

What am I missing here?

It’s the Freakin Weekend

“Survived the week. Reward unlocked: Weekend!”  -Lynneah from Twinsandcoffee.com

I only have a couple of weeks left of this semester, and I am so excited! Also, it’s Friday! Tomorrow, I think I might sleep in, make a fancy home coffee, and listen to an audiobook to start my day. The great thing about the weekend for me right now is that it’s up to me! I get to choose what I want to do (for now at least). I’ve learned that letting myself fully enjoy my free time really recharges my creativity. The funny thing is that needing free time is kind of annoying. There’s a part of me that just wants to pump out work. That’s the part of me that doesn’t appreciate my humanity, and I’m pretty sure we all have that. The weekend isn’t the place for that part of me. That part can come out during the work week.

So even if this isn’t your Friday, make sure you have some time for yourself planned.

What are your dream plans right now? My dream plans right now are definitely going to a thrift book warehouse and topping that off with a coffee shop.

Writing Journal

“Whether you’re keeping a journal or writing as a meditation, it’s the same thing. What’s important is you’re having a relationship with your mind.” -Natalie Goldberg

One of the things that got me through writing my first novel was journaling my way through it. It’s where I can discuss topics I don’t quite understand yet. And it’s interesting because after I write my questions in my journal, the answers always show up. I don’t have a specific way that I journal. I just do my best to get my thoughts out. Sometimes that requires doodling, but most times it’s just writing. I prefer colored pens so I can differentiate between the different days that I wrote. Besides that, I journal however I want: questions, descriptions, poetry, answers to my questions, just a brief summary. I don’t write much about my life or personal thoughts when I journal about my novels unless those thoughts are hounding me so badly that I can’t write. But that’s rare and very annoying. I’m glad I’ve added journaling into my daily routine. It took time to be consistent with it, but it was definitely a worthy addition.

Do you have a writing journal?