The Right Time

“The time is always right to do what is right.” -Martin Luther King Jr.

Typed “quotes” into the search engine, and this one resonated the most. I don’t know that I can come up with any wiser words, but I’m feeling it today. Doing the right thing doesn’t always get you a pat on the back. Hell, sometimes it even knocks you back a few steps. What’s important to remember is that you are the first link in the chain. If not the first, you’re one more link. People may not understand why you are so committed to your beliefs and values in the moment, but once you stand up for what’s right, you give the next person enough bravery to take a stand. And then the next, and then the next. Don’t ever feel that your desire to do right is a waste. You may never know the positive impact you’ve made. You may have even liberated someone’s limited way of thinking.

Choose right even when it feels wrong.

Peace if Mind

“Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to become the best of which you are capable.” —John Wooden

To become the best of which you are capable isn’t a set point; it’s a state of mind. This mindset isn’t about finality it’s about acceptance. The magic is that when you do the best you are capable of every day, you’ll continue to get better. And always remember, it’s not about comparing your better to someone else’s; it’s about comparing your better to your yesterday.

Thank You For Your Respect

I’m so grateful for those who find ways to respect women. Supporting her dreams, encouraging her growth, respecting her space, and sticking things out when she’s unsure of what the future holds. We, as a collective, have so much power that can be harnessed and used toward our greatest good. When all women are in safe spaces and treated with love and respect, it will continue to heal our world. I believe in a world where women are safe, and I will continue to take action to see that come to reality. Your intentional respect is so valuable to me.

Apple Festival

I ventured out into the world today. I got myself dressed up and went to my favorite bakery. There just happened to be an apple festival going on in the same area this weekend. It was too easy to go there, too. The funny thing is, I never found the apples. However, there was live music and good-smelling food. I’ll take it!

Patience

“Nature does not hurry, yet everything is accomplished.” -Lao Tzu

I took it slow this Friday. I hung out and appreciated the fall foliage. I had a meeting that went well and did some housework. I even spent time with my mama and chatted with my bro about our dreams. Even though it was a slow day, I still did things to move forward and connect with my family. I’d say today was a success!

Don’t let the world rush you toward something that’s already yours. Let it come.

Mom Life

“For all the things my hands have held, the best by far is you.” – Unknown

I love being a mom of two amazing girls. I had to learn that being a parent isn’t about perfect timing; it’s about choosing your babies’ best life and your own best life in a way that doesn’t impact the well-being of each other. I like to prepare, but both times I became a mom, timing wasn’t perfect. My girls were (and still are) everything I could ask for in my children. I adore who they are.

Nightmares

The thing about nightmares was that you couldn’t prepare for them. They sneaked up on you when you were most vulnerable.” -Sylvia Day

I haven’t been remembering my dreams as much lately, but a couple of nights ago, I had a nightmare. It was not fun! I had it a few times in a row. I mean, I’m not shocked or anything. I’ve had my fair share of nightmares. It’s nothing new, but it just makes me tired the next day. Thought since we’re in the midst of spooky season it would be a fun time to share.

I hope you have a good sleep tonight.

How’s your sleep going?

Connection

 “In nature we never see anything isolated, but everything in connection with something else which is before it, beside it, under it and over it.” -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

I don’t write about connection that often but I do appreciate the idea that so much of our world is connected. I have been thinking about this more lately. What do you think about connection? Do you think this is a spiritual idea or more of a scientific idea?