Girl Mom

I am so in love with motherhood.

I want my girls to live their absolute best lives. I want them to bloom and grow. I want them to learn to love themselves so that they can love those around them. I want them to think critically and learn to use wisdom. There’s so much I want for them. And you know what all those thoughts lead me to? If I’m sitting here glowing when my babies are glowing, then there’s people out there excited, over joyed, and even feel loved when they see me living my absolute best life. And that really got me thinking. Living my best life really does help me love those around me and not only the living, my ancestors too. Imagine working your a$$ off and looking down from the heavens to see that even after all your failures, your next generations are thriving!!

I’m so inspired. Motherhood is so inspiring.

Let it Snow

The snow has begun.

I like snow days. I don’t like to drive in snow storms but I do enjoy looking at them. I also like shoveling the driveway. It’s a project I can actually finish within a short period of time. I didn’t always like shoveling the driveway. My enjoyment for shoveling started after I had my little one. After I had her, I finally got my energy back and shoveling became a lot more enjoyable. Plus, it’s a good workout which I miss doing.

And for fun, I have to add Bard’s thoughts about snow storms. #perspective

Cozy Chaos and the Joys of Winter

Of course, snowstorms can also be disruptive. Power outages, travel delays, and treacherous roads can test our patience. But nestled within the chaos lies a certain cozy charm. Hot cocoa by the fireplace, board games under a blanket of snow, and snowball fights with laughter ringing through the air – these are the joys that snowstorms bring. They force us to slow down, to reconnect with our inner child, and to appreciate the simple pleasures of home and hearth.

Thanks for reading! Do you have any good snowed stories?

In 2024,

I accept the woman I am and welcome the woman I’m becoming.

It’s taken a long time but I’m finally consistently in a place where I appreciate meee. I was at war with myself for a very long time. I didn’t like myself. The first time I ever felt at home in myself was in 2014. Even after that, it took a lot of leaning to be gentle and a lot of learning to trust my inner voice. I also had to learn to walk away from people and things that I really wanted but I was out growing. At the same time I had to learn to let good things happen to me and let love in.

Now that I’m happy in my skin let’s talk about 2024!

So this year I want to thrive! I want to continue experiencing the world filled while being filled with peace, love, and joy. I want to learn more about all the cultures that make up this great nation -this great planet! And I especially want my family along for the ride.

Snuggles

I posted a little snip it of me and my little one sniggling which gave me a great idea! I wanted to ask Google Bard about the importance of snuggling and Bard came through! I’ll share an awesome life Bard gave me about snuggling but first go check out these amazing snuggles

ok now that you got those mirror neurons activated here’s the list:

Snuggles, those blissful moments of close physical contact, are more than just a feel-good experience. They’re actually essential for our well-being, offering a surprising range of benefits for both our physical and mental health. Here’s why snuggles are so important:

1. Bonding and Attachment: Snuggling releases oxytocin, the “love hormone,” which strengthens bonds and fosters feelings of affection and trust. This is especially crucial for infants and young children, whose brains thrive on the security and comfort of physical touch. But it’s not just for kids! Cuddling with loved ones, whether romantic partners, family, or even pets, deepens our connections and reinforces our sense of belonging.

2. Stress Relief and Relaxation: Feeling overwhelmed? A good snuggle can be the ultimate stress reliever. Oxytocin not only promotes feelings of calm and contentment, but it also lowers cortisol, the stress hormone. This can lead to decreased blood pressure, slower heart rate, and even improved sleep quality. So next time you’re feeling tense, skip the caffeine and reach for a hug instead.

3. Pain Relief and Immune System Boost: The comforting warmth and gentle pressure of a snuggle can actually help to reduce pain perception. This is why cuddling is often recommended for those suffering from chronic pain or recovering from surgery. Additionally, physical touch has been shown to boost the immune system, making us more resistant to illness. So snuggle up and stay healthy!

4. Improved Emotional Regulation: Snuggling isn’t just about physical closeness; it’s also about emotional connection. When we feel safe and loved, we’re better able to regulate our emotions. Cuddling can help us to calm down during times of anger or sadness, and can even improve our overall emotional well-being.

5. Increased Self-Esteem and Confidence: Physical touch is a powerful way to show affection and care. Receiving a hug or cuddle can make us feel valued and loved, which can boost our self-esteem and confidence. This is especially important for children, who need to feel secure and supported in order to develop a healthy sense of self.

So there you have it! Snuggles aren’t just a luxury; they’re a necessity for a happy and healthy life. So make time for some cuddling today, whether it’s with a loved one, a pet, or even a soft blanket. Your body and mind will thank you for it!

THANK YOU BARD!!!

I’d Rather Be Writing

If I had had the option, my entire day would consist of writing, inspiring my writing, reading about writing, learning more about writing connecting with writers, or doing something non writing to inspire more writing.

The glory of writing is not exclusive to the celebrated few. It’s a flame that flickers within each of us, waiting to be kindled. So, pick up your pen, unleash your voice, and join the chorus of storytellers. For in the symphony of words, your unique melody will add its own precious note, enriching the grand opera of human expression.

Bard

Words, like kisses, let him out
of my cage for once. Each line an
escape hatch: I crawl through,
free

Anne Sexton

Day 1

Today was the first day of the year and I spent it listening to Moby Dick and knitting.

I have a bad cough that’s keeping me up all night, so I’m pretty tired but I had the urge to be creative so I surfed Pinterest, worked on the prose in Book 1 of my novel, and worked on knitting a scarf while listening to Herman Melville’s great whale tale. It is an inspiring read. I enjoy it very much. The classics just have a way with me that most modern day books do not. I don’t think that’s something to be proud of because this is the world I live currently live in. Reading current works help me to connect with now and the things we go through today as a collective. I think I do myself a bit if a disservice by limiting my literature to the classics. But reading is reading, and history repeats itself. The great books of the past hold universal themes so there’s still learning from them. Maybe it’s not so bad.

Balance

The key to a happy life is balance. We must be willing to grow up. We must be willing to let go of things. We must be willing to change. We must be willing to chase after our dreams. And we must be willing to accept setbacks with grace.

Carrie Green

Learning to go with the flow of life and all the things that come with being human can bring so much peace.

Believe in Yourself

The journey to self-belief isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. When you truly believe in yourself, you open the door to a world of possibilities, unlock your hidden potential, and create a life that’s authentic, fulfilling, and brimming with joy. So, silence the inner critic, ignite the voice of self-belief, and take a leap of faith towards the amazing life that awaits you.