Now What?

Phew! I am feeling this transition, and it’s really overwhelming. So, I wanted to share some things I do to help me through the overwhelm during what can feel like big transitions. First, I focus on allowing myself to move as slowly as possible. I do my best to prioritize the important things. Second, noContinue reading “Now What?”

Spontaneous Changes, No Thanks

“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them – that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” -Lao Tzu This is one way to live. It’s a peaceful option and one with little resistance to external factors. I often lean towardContinue reading “Spontaneous Changes, No Thanks”

A Decade of Blogging!

I’ve been writing a whole decade and all I have to show for it is this. When I started blogging, I was working on a project called Ambition in Women, which turned into over a decade of working on myself. I’ve always had a fire in my soul to fight for women’s rights. That mayContinue reading “A Decade of Blogging!”

Buy the Ticket, Take the Ride, and Find Peace There

“You cannot find peace by avoiding life.” -Virginia Woolf I’m going to do my best to grab life by the horns. I’m here for this entire ride, and it’s easy to forget that. “Buy the ticket, take the ride.” -Hunter Thompson Sitting things out locked away, in a tiny safe space day in and dayContinue reading “Buy the Ticket, Take the Ride, and Find Peace There”

A Million Ways

“The first draft is just you telling yourself the story.”  -Terry Pratchett There’s a million stories; I feel like it’s not just telling yourself the story but deciding the best story that reflects the vision. What’s frustrating is that visions aren’t always easy to translate within the limitations of language. At the same time, thereContinue reading “A Million Ways”

The Big Secret

“My writing process is a mix of research, personal experiences, washing the dishes, raising kids while thinking – then writing.” -Jean Craighead George I feel like this quote is giving away the big secret to writing. Imagine this is where it all comes from, not magic at all. I still believe there’s a mystery involvedContinue reading “The Big Secret”

Destructive

“There is something unwholesome and destructive about the entire writing process.” -Joy Williams This is the most honest and real quote I’ve seen yet when it comes to the writing process. I like to fantasize about having a neat desk, with a neat outline, and the story unfolding, in order, exactly when I sit inContinue reading “Destructive”