Feeling a little under the weather today. Tired achy headache blahh. Taking it easy this evening. I’m sure I’ll feel better tomorrow. Even though I’m taking it easy, I feel like it’s important to share something.
I decided it might be fun to share my Creative Writing professor, Antoinette Brim-Bell’s work. I’m happy/excited to be in her creative writing class.
It took me some time to learn this. There’s two parts to this: setting clear boundaries, and learning to say no, (or at least take time to think about it).
Part One Setting clear boundaries
When you’re called to leave a situation because it’s toxic, it no longer deserves your loyalty. And it’s clear that it’s toxic when your clear set boundaries are disregarded. It can be hard to notice if your boundaries are being disrespected if you have no boundaries set in the first place. Finding out and practicing what boundaries work for you is important. There is such thing as being too rigid.
Part Two Learning to say no
If you’re saying yes to everything in all aspects of your life out of loyalty you’re burning yourself out. This is where knowing your values helps to prioritize your live events. I want you to keep in mind that you don’t always have to answer right away. Take time to think about your schedule. At the same time it’s important to say Yes! to the things that make your fruits of the spirit grow!
At the end of the day loyalty has its place but loyalty taken too far is called codependency. Take care of yourself, know your beliefs and values, and do your best to improve the life of yourself and those around you. That is where liberation lies.
Meeting The Man : James Baldwin in Paris. Directed by Terence Dixon United Kingdom, France, 1970.
James Baldwin according to The Poetry Foundation is a “novelist and essayist of considerable renown, [who] bore witness to the unhappy consequences of American racial strife.” James Baldwin wrote “Go Tell It on the Mountain, The Amen Corner, Notes of a Native Son, Nobody Knows My Name, The Fire Next Time, No Name in the Street, and The Evidence of Things Not Seen. They represent “a search for roots, a surrender to tradition, an acceptance of the Negro past. Then came a series of essays which probe, deeper than anyone has dared, the psychic history of this nation. They are a moving record of a man’s struggle to define the forces that have shaped him, in order that he may accept himself.”
Critics accorded Baldwin high praise for both his style and his themes. “Baldwin has carved a literary niche through his exploration of ‘the mystery of the human being’ in his art,” observed Louis H. Pratt in James Baldwin. “His short stories, novels, and plays shed the light of reality upon the darkness of our illusions, while the essays bring a boldness, courage, and cool logic to bear on the most crucial questions of humanity with which this country has yet to be faced.”
If the hope of giving is to love the living, the giver risks madness in the act of giving.
Some such lesson I seemed to see in the faces that surrounded me.
Needy and blind, unhopeful, unlifted, what gift would give them the gift to be gifted The giver is no less adrift than those who are clamouring for the gift.
If they cannot claim it, if it is not there, if their empty fingers beat the empty air and the giver goes down on his knees in prayer knows that all of his giving has been for naught and that nothing was ever what he thought and turns in his guilty bed to stare at the starving multitudes standing there and rises from bed to curse at heaven, he must yet understand that to whom much is given much will be taken, and justly so: I cannot tell how much I owe.
I love doors. Look at them! There’s a million shapes and sizes. They can lead to great things or to places you never want to go again. I’m sorry for the doors you entered where you were not valued but let me give you a space where you can enter these doors and be valued for being exactly who you are.
How do my weekly “Doors” posts work?
On these blog posts, I insert a picture of an amazing door and then I insert a safe link to somewhere on the interweb. There will never be anything inappropriate on the other side of these doors. What I hope resides on the other side of these doors is inspiration.
There are ex pirate cooks in One Piece and I’m hooked. I don’t know how long I’ll be into it but come on, Pirate cooks that stepped away from pirating. The head cook even has this badass Pirate story about him and a braided stash. This show really got my attention.
Also if you haven’t heard, the new Loki is out!! Can’t wait to watch that with my partner. I like spending time doing things we both enjoy.
I’ve begun to say things like, “Wow this is amazing, how could this get any better?” It’s strange the things that surprise me when I say that out loud. I’m grateful for every blessing that comes my way.
Have you ever read the screenplay for your favoritest movie ever? Well, I dabbled in screenplay writing for a little while. It’s fun to write screenplays. If you haven’t tried to write one yet, you should totally give it shot! Even if you’re not interested in writing one, I think everyone interested should get a view of their favorite movie plotted out.
So if you’re still reading this post and you’re interested I’ll attach a link to the database.
BUT FIRST READ NOTE
Note: You DO NOT need to download!! Click the link that says- Read “Movie Title”
Ok, thanks for reading. Here’s the link! Have fun! Let me know what you decide to read!
If you follow me on Instagram you know I love those little Kawaii cartoons with positive messages. So yesterday’s post was about finding Sketchable on my computer. I wasn’t sure where to start when it came to creating something but it hit me to work on learning to draw cute things.