Writers Life: Onward

“There comes a time in your life when you have to choose to turn the page, write another book or simply close it.” – Shannon L. Alder

I started a short story. It’s boring, and I haven’t really found the purpose yet. I didn’t want to start another story until I finished the novel, but this novel is just taking too long for me to be waiting on. I’m going to multitask at this point. I don’t really have time to be wasting all my energy on one novel; I have a whole lot of creativity in here. Plus, at this point in the editing process, it’s just making sure loose ends get tied, techniques are there, and the story is there.

How’s your writing or editing coming along?

Writing Reasons

“Perhaps I write for no one. Perhaps for the same person children are writing for when they scrawl their names in the snow.” ― Margaret Atwood

I write for everyone and no one. I write for me. I write for those I love; I write for the little girls who think they don’t fit in but just haven’t found their place yet. I write for no good reason at all, and I write to save myself. I used to write to save the world, but I learned that the first place I need to start is with me.

On another note, my little one was very excited to play in the snow today. I owe her some delicious hot chocolate.

Meet Day

My daughter had a meet today. What’s great about meet days is that they are family days too.
We went to a new meet for us. This meet was organized to raise money for the Special Olympics. My oldest was the one competing. She looked great. She had a fantastic attitude and even got a blanket for participating in the meet. She received a couple of medals and a trophy too.

My little one even had fun and kept herself busy. She went for a full-on Christmas-themed outfit today, and I couldn’t tell her nothing. It did get a little long for her, but once we got moving, she pulled herself together. Hey, it’s hard being almost 6.

Shoot for the Stars

I’m in this little bubble that’s floating toward all my dreams. What’s the best that could happen on my way there? I’m afraid I’ve been dreaming too small lately. I think I should find some more ways to use my dreams to get excited about my journey, especially with everything that’s going on in the world. My stress level shot up once school got back into session, but now that I’ve begun all my classes and have an understanding of my course load, I feel like this is going to be a good semester. I mean, what’s the best that could happen?

No Real Ending

“There is no real ending. It’s just the place where you stop the story.” – Frank Herbert

I don’t like this quote, but it’s because it’s so true. It’s frustrating for me. I mean, who doesn’t love a clear, sensible direction? Everyone must love it. Well, I do. lol But with writing, the rules only take you so far when it comes to storytelling. The writer decides where to stop. It’s not easy. It actually made me kind of emotional when I got to the end.

How was it for you when you decided to stop the story?

Just Get Started

“Once we start a task, it’s rarely as bad as we think.” -Timothy A Pychyl Ph.D. from Psychology Today

I made it through this first week of school. I’m so proud because, for some reason, it felt like everything was coming at me at once, but my work is in on time, and I’m getting rolling. I was a bit stressed, but with my homework done, I can prepare for the new week ahead. I was telling a friend that I’m thinking of this as good stress.

Curiosity

“Curiosity about life in all of its aspects, I think, is still the secret of great creative people.” – Leo Burnett

I like this reminder. I forget that I need to stay curious. Keeping myself excited to learn new things is self-care, self-love, self-empowerment, all that. There’s so much to learn, but I’m the type of person that likes to watch the same things over and over again. For example, restoration videos, IG poets, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (the one with Gene Wilder), and Bee and Puppycat. I need to make sure I’m also finding out things that pique my curiosity during my downtime.

What have you been curious about lately?

Writers Tip

I take two hours off for my family every day. And then I write fourteen hours.” -Brandon Sanderson

I just wanted to share that Brandon Sanderson is sharing his lectures on his YouTube channel. It’s a wealth of knowledge for fiction writers. If you haven’t heard of Sanderson, he wrote “The Stormlight Archive” and the “Mistborn” series. My husband is the fan, but he lectures well. It’s worth a listen.

Here’s his bio

“Brandon Winn Sanderson is an American author of science fiction, fantasy, and young adult novels. He studied creative writing and English literature at Brigham Young University. Sanderson is best known for his “Cosmere” fictional universe, where many of his fantasy novels take place, including “The Stormlight Archive” and the “Mistborn” series. He also completed Robert Jordan’s Wheel of Time series after Jordan’s death.” -Wikipedia

The first lecture is titled The Philosophy of Professional Writing

Growing Slowly

“Be not afraid of growing slowly; be afraid only of standing still.” – Chinese Proverb

I’m the type of girl who likes things slow. I like to take it easy. I like to chill out and cruise around. I may be considered a late bloomer, but I’m not committed to that label. The point is, I don’t like to rush growth or my day. I like to let it pick up naturally. I used to think I was lazy or lacked work ethic, but no, I’m just someone who likes daily routines and disciplines.